Hey Embracer's
Happy Friday Eve!!! How ya'll doing? How did you sleep? What have you accomplished this week? Tell me about it.
As you know, this week was my Son shine's birthday, he turned 5. Let me tell you. it was a huge success, baby boy was smiling, giving hugs throughout the whole day. he even said thank you for coming. Because both him and his sister spent the whole weekend with their dad and uncle. So we were going to have a separate celebration, until both me and their dad spoke on the phone and came up with a plan that was greatly executed. He arranged an Airbnb for his stay in N.Y, so we arranged last minute for me to go over there instead of doing it in the park outside of my mother's building.
When Eli saw me and his friend walked into the yard, he was so excited. And I hugged his uncle. i said hello to Kenny (their dad). I didn't hug him because he doesn't do well with hugging so that would have been awkward asf. But yeah, we cut a cake for Eli, took plenty of photos, played picture bingo, Talaya won the $1 by rock, paper, scissor against her uncle and their friend. Then, the adults started coming. the kids were placed inside the house, did TikTok. I thought about going home around 10, but to travel on the train with 3 kids and bags; I refuse to do that; gotten too spoiled with the convenient driving. I can not wait until I become an official licensed driver with my own vehicle. Long story short, we headed up sleeping over. Ain't no funny business happened between their dad and I. I can not place myself in that pit again. I am glad he did not push for anything neither. I believe he has someone special anyways because every now and again he would be on his phone secretly.
This is why I can not trust his word. he mentioned that he doesn't trust no female, yet he speaking to someone in secret; where i asked him, perhaps he might meet his wife. And what's crazy is that, i had to fall back from my special person because Kenny found his number and harassed him; trying to dismantle my character. But even if i wanted to I can not do the same. Like he is really unaware of his actions and he truly believes his actions are right and I am always wrong. But hey! this is what it takes to be a peacemaker. When you believe something to be incorrect, you just have to nod your head in agreement, just to be at peace with the other person. I am over it, over him, Best wishes to him. Allow the holy spirit to guide us through this co parenting, co existing relationship. I am going to stay true and plugged in to My Source. My Source is what keeps me leveled and in obedience.
So Embracer's, if you are a single parent out there trying to balance the co parenting, please please stay in prayer, in the spirit, acknowledge your feelings yet remind yourself of the facts and the reason why you are placed in a situation. the whole objective to co parenting is the well being of the children. Period!. We accomplished that. so I am happy.
Remember Embracing you is the key to loving yourself. Love is the religion. Unity is the mission. Stay safe. Stay healthy. Stay Grounded. Until Next time. Aba Iseini 💗
~ Ellie ~
I am EmbraceU
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